Virginity To Keep it or Lose it

While there is a lot of information out there about people who lose their virginity very young or in relationships or in situations that may or may not be proper, there is not a lot of information out there about those who have chosen to keep their virginity into adulthood.

Many people, both men and women, are making the effort to keep their virginity through their teen years and even well into their 20's. At this point a lot of people are wondering if they really want to wait until they get married. After waiting for so long many people are eager to start experiencing the sexual things that all of their friends have been talking about for years.

If you are still a virgin and you are wondering if you should keep it or lose it, you are truly at a place in your life where you are the only one who can answer the question. Unfortunately, no one can tell you whether now is the time or if it will be time in three weeks, three months, or three years. You will really need to look inside yourself and decide if this is the time and if this is the person.

If you have been in a committed relationship for some time you may be more eager than ever to lose your virginity. You may have some pressure from your love interest who wants to experience sex with you and you may not know which way to go. On one hand you have waited this long, so why shouldn't you wait until you get married? On the other hand, you have been in a committed relationship with this person, you are sure it is going to last, so why not?

You really need to look at the reasons that you held out for this long. Did you keep your virginity this long because you promised yourself that you would wait until you got married? Or, were you just waiting for the right person to come along? If the plan was always to wait until you got married you should wait, because you may be upset with yourself if you lose your virginity and then you don't end up getting married. If you have just been waiting for the right person to come along and you really feel as though this is a person that you wouldn't regret losing your virginity to, go for it!

Losing your virginity is a big step and it is one that is tied up with a lot of different emotions. You may find that one moment you are ready and the next moment you are not. You should definitely wait until you are sure that this is something that you want to do, not allowing for pressure to make the decision for you.

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Rodrigo Rehn is a Relationships Expert, Linux Systems Administrator, Web Programmer, PHP Developer and CEO of FaceRomance online dating for singles.

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